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Thursday, January 7, 2010

20 months



Lily's language is expanding by leaps about bounds. Every once in a while she spouts out a word that I didn't know she even knew and I don't remember even saying it to her more than a couple times. Just the other day she said "broccoli" to me. She's only tried broccoli once and didn't eat it but she picked it up somewhere. A lot of words are still only understandable in context but most of the time we understand what she's saying. She really enjoys communicating with us too, she's pretty much talking all the time. I think she says "mommy" the most. She likes to say it so I say "what?" then says it again, and again, and again. I'm sure people get annoyed with our "mommy?", "what?", "mommy?", "what?" back and forth. She thinks it's funny though. She also says "book" a lot, which sounds more like "boooot" because she wants books read to her all the time. Literally, all the time. I think we must read at least 30 or so books a day. She also likes to re-read the same books again and again. Usually I make her get a different book because my brain cannot handle Brown Bear, Brown Bear what do you hear? 15 times in a row. But the bonus is that she's starting to "read" along with us, which is pretty cute. She really likes books with a rhyme or a rhythm. She likes to dance along with them as I read. Some of my favorite words that she says are "dorable" because we're always telling her she's adorable. And also, "'mon", which is how she's shortened "come on".

She loves her new kitchen that she got from Santa for Christmas. She likes to make me food to eat. She especially loves to fill up a tea cup with "water" from the sink and bring it to me. She loves it when I say I'm "all done" and always wants to get me more. She also tells me to say "please" and I have to be very specific and say "more water please". Every time she wants me to say the same thing. And we'll do this over and over again at least 4 or 5 or more times.

She loves the snow. She's always been warm, even as a little baby we had to be careful not to over-dress her so I don't think the cold really bothers her. She'd go outside without a jacket if we let her. And she loves to play in the snow. Whenever we're walking somewhere she has to walk in the snow, which usually means walking across people's yards. It's a lot easier when there's only a few inches of snow because she can still walk in it without falling down. When it's really deep she can't walk and she falls over and can't get back up. She also likes to destroy snowmen while her daddy's making them and thinks it's hilarious if anyone get's hit by a snowball.

She also moved up to her big girl bed. It has a trundle under it so it really it a tall bed too. She has a railing up on one side and the other is up against the wall and we have the trundle pulled out about halfway so she can climb in and out of bed. We decided we wanted to move her to the real bed sometime at least a couple of months before the new baby comes so the new baby can sleep in the crib and Lily won't feel like it's stealing her bed. We made the switch now because her bed has been in her room for a while and we've been talking about how it's her big girl bed and she started asking about it and said she wanted to sleep in it. So we let her. Bedtime was easy for her. She went right to sleep; no issues whatsoever. Naptime wasn't so easy. She kept getting out of bed, trying to turn the doorknob to get out of her room or just playing. We made several attempts and I kept having to resort to putting her in her crib to sleep after an hour of not sleeping. Then one day we got home late after an active day and she slept in her bed without issue. The next day she laid down at her normal naptime of 10 AM or so and more problems, so sleeping, playing, got out of bed to get a book to read and ripped the cover off it (a library book no less), etc. I finally just got her up, we ate lunch, took a walk, then took a nap, and no issue again. The same thing played out the next day and I finally figured out what the problem was. It wasn't the bed that was the problem, it was just the time of her nap. And ever since she's been sleeping great in her bed. We are so lucky with her sleeping abilities. She goes to sleep so easily and has so a long time. I worry this means our next child won't sleep. Hopefully we'll be equally lucky again.

She absolutely loved the holidays. She loved the decorations. She loved the lights. She loved the presents. She had at least 3 gifts to open every night of Chanukah since we had 8 gifts for her and she also had gifts from her Bauby and Grandpa, Great-Bauby and Great-Grandpa and Uncle Gary and Aunt Cat. And every night when she was done opening presents she said "more, more" (which she still says and signs simultaneously). Daddy was up into the wee hours of Christmas morning setting up her new kitchen. She had a great time opening up all her gifts. We Skyped (video conference) with her Grandma and Papa while Lily opened her gifts. We were sad not to be celebrating with them in Redding so it sort of made up for it. Lily also got to talk to her Uncle Grant all the way in the Dominican Republic. Next year we'll be celebrating Christmas with the whole Horrocks clan in California.

Opening gifts on Chanukah.

A big snow storm, up to Lily's knees!

Lily doesn't really like making snow angels.

Making Christmas sugar cookies. Lily likes to do everything.

Decorating cookies, some of us ate more than we decorated.



Lily dancing at Scott's department holiday party.



Lily cooking in her kitchen.

Getting ready to sleep in her big girl bed for the 1st time.

We took a trip to Newport, RI just before New Years. Lily was a fan of the indoor pool.

Saturday, January 2, 2010

19 weeks!

I'm already approaching the halfway point in this pregnancy. I can hardly believe we've come that far. Although I can say I'm a bit more distracted this time around. Lily keeps me very busy and this pregnancy is just flying by. The baby is getting bigger and stronger. I can feel it kicking in there every day. It's about the size of a mango now. I, however, am much larger than that. I have gained about 10 pounds so far. I gained 35 pounds total with Lily and I hope to gain at most that much again.

Physically I still feel good. The morning sickness is a distant memory now, although at the time I remember wondering why I signed up for this again. I have noticed a little bit of swelling in my legs, which got really bad last time. But some things are different. I have had more cravings--nothing that Scott has had to go out in the middle of the night for though. Stereotypically I have been eating a lot more pickles and ice cream, I don't think the later has anything to do with the pregnancy. Early on I was starving all the time, now I think my appetite is pretty much normal.

Lily knows there's a baby in my stomach. I doubt she gets the whole picture, but she says baby and point to my stomach. She gives it kisses. She is a really great helper and I know she'll be a big help to me when the baby gets here.

We had our first doctor's visit in New Haven. Or midwife visit would be more accurate. We are seeing midwives again for this birth. New Haven is a mecca of sorts for midwifery. In the U.S. 1 in 10 births are attended by a midwife but in New Haven it's 6 in 10. This is largely due to the prestigious program at Yale. The midwife group that we're seeing is similar to the practice we used at UCLA for Lily's birth. It's located a couple of blocks from Yale-New Haven Hospital, where we will deliver. And we'll see all the midwives in the group and whomever happens to be on call when I go into labor will deliver Lily. There are a couple of regular obstetricians in the group and I will also see them during my pregnancy. We saw one of the midwives on the 28th. We listened to the heart beat and went through all of my records from UCLA. Everything was fine and normal of course. All signs point to a healthy little baby growing nice and strong. The big news is that our next big ultrasound will be on January 11th. We'll hopefully be able to find out the gender of this baby then. Lily didn't cooperate very well last time but hopefully this baby will be less modest.