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Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Sibling class & Hospital Tour

On Monday night our family of three visited the maternity floors of the Yale-New Haven Hospital. We were there specially for a sibling class for Lily. The purpose is to show her where mommy's going to be staying for a couple of days so she can be prepared and not as scared when she comes to see me. We've started talking about mommy sleeping at the hospital and I think this sort of blows her mind and I know she won't be happy about leaving with me there (especially since we're basically together 24 hours a day when she's not sleeping). The teacher did a really good job of gearing it for the range of ages that were in the class. Lily was the youngest sibling in the group, the closest in age was a little boy a few months older than her. The two of them were the troublemakers of the group and were crawling down the halls, climbing on tables, etc. During the tour they got to see a room where I'll stay, try out the moving hospital beds, see where the snacks are and learn how to wash their hands really thoroughly.

By far the highlight of the tour was seeing the babies. There were two babies in the nursery when we visited. One was only a couple of hours old and was getting her first bath with a very proud daddy watching on. A new mom also let us take a close up look at her baby. They showed the kids her bed and all her supplies and her teeny tiny feet with her little security bracelet. Lily was quite enthralled by the baby. Up until a few months ago Lily hadn't really been interested in little babies. They don't really make a lot of noise or move around so she wasn't really that curious about them. But in the past couple of months her interest has really grown. She points out every baby she sees, even strollers she sees out the car window. She's very concerned when babies cry and wants to know why (she always thinks they are hungry or tired).

Lily learning how to swaddle a baby.

Lily learning how to hold a baby correctly.


Lily sitting with the other siblings in her class at the hospital. She had to bring her baby along and was not shy about contributing to the discussion.

Thursday, February 28, 2008

31 weeks

I didn't realize I was a week behind. Hopefully the 32 week post won't be too far behind.


How your baby's growing: This week, your baby measures over 16 inches long. He weighs about 3.3 pounds (try carrying four navel oranges) and is heading into a growth spurt. He can turn his head from side to side, and his arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath his skin. He's probably moving a lot, too, so you may have trouble sleeping because your baby's kicks and somersaults keep you up. Take comfort: All this moving is a sign that your baby is active and healthy.

How your life's changing: Have you noticed the muscles in your uterus tightening now and then? Many women feel these random contractions — called Braxton Hicks contractions — in the second half of pregnancy. Often lasting about 30 seconds, they're irregular, and at this point, they should be infrequent and painless. Frequent contractions, on the other hand — even those that don't hurt — may be a sign of preterm labor. Call your practitioner immediately if you have more than four contractions in an hour or any other signs of preterm labor: an increase in vaginal discharge or a change in the type of discharge (if it becomes watery, mucus-like, or bloody — even if it's pink or just tinged with blood); abdominal pain or menstrual-like cramping; an increase in pressure in the pelvic area; or low back pain, especially if you didn't have it before.

You may have noticed some leaking of colostrum, or "premilk," from your breasts lately. If so, try tucking some nursing pads into your bra to protect your clothes. (And if not, it's certainly nothing to worry about; your breasts are making colostrum all the same, even if you don't see any.) If your current bra is too snug, you might also want to pick up a nursing bra. Choose a nursing bra at least one cup size bigger than you need now. When your milk comes in you'll be grateful for that extra room!

How I'm doing: I haven't noticed any Braxton Hicks contractions since much closer to the beginning of pregnancy. I'm sure they'll be coming back soon. We had a midwife appointment this week (or last week now that I'm a week late on this update). The baby was doing just fine. Her heartbeat was still nice and strong. I only gained .7 lbs in the two weeks since my previous appointment so I did well on that front. We made it out to a nice dinner one night to one of Mario Batali's restaurants in LA Osteria Mozza. Even though Scott can be a picky eater we both enjoyed everything we ate and dined next to Lionel Richie in the process; unfortunately his new grandbaby wasn't with him. We're trying to get in a lot of things we won't be able to do with a baby. For Valentine's Day we purchased tickets to Wicked! at the Pantages Theater in Hollywood. We'll be going to see that next week and sitting in something like the 10th row. We're really looking forward to that.

We also had an additional birthing class which was mainly on nutrition and a bit about early labor, when to go to the hospital, etc. And we also had our hospital tour. It was a busy week; especially since I didn't return from Redding until Monday evening. The hospital tour was exciting. It was cool to see the place our baby will be born. Or might be born. As it turns out UCLA Ronald Reagan Hospital will be opening on May 4th (Happy birthday Dad!). My due date is on April 25th according to me or April 30th according to my midwives. So the baby's birthday could be very close to or after May 4th. So it's likely we'll find out which hospital our baby will be born at very close to her actual birthday. Luckily they are across the street from each other so it doesn't require any advanced planning. I'm holding out hope that she'll stay put until after the 4th. We saw pictures of the new hospital and I'd rather go there. Even if just for the private rooms. At the old hospital the recovery rooms are semi-private and Scott would have to go home at 9 PM every night if I had a roommate. Babies room-in at UCLA (the nursery is only for babies with problems) so obviously I'd much prefer if Scott were there. If we go to the old hospital, we may consider upgrading to a private room for $330/night (yikes!). But then Scott would have his own twin bed to sleep over in. But of course insurance won't pay for that.

We feel very fortunate to be having our baby at UCLA though. It's a wonderful hospital. Our tour was given by the Director of Labor and Delivery who's a nurse and we liked her a lot. We feel confident that with our midwives and the staff at UCLA we'll get the birth experience we want in a very safe environment.

But I'm leaving out the best part of my week. My mom and sister, Kellie threw me and my (also pregnant) sister, Melody a shower on February 16th.